Somehow the vagina has been lost and erased in a sex-crazed culture manipulated into a penis-pleasure culture. People with vaginas have been forgotten, and manipulated into believing that our sexual pleasure is not important enough by men who can’t locate a clit, and joke around about how the female orgasm is “non existent.” Most cis-women, don’t even know about their own anatomy, and for cis men, they simply don’t care. So we’re going to break it down for you.
your first time, is not supposed to bleed. bleeding only occurs when you are not aroused enough, and your vaginal walls are not self-lubricated enough for entry or intercourse to be pleasurable. The hymen is a part of the vagina that STRETCHES, with enough lubrication it will stay stretched and pleasurable. It will only result in blood if it is “torn” hence the myth of the “cherry pop.” Personal experience: I did NOT bleed from my first intercourse. And that is completely, and should be commonly, normal! lexi4prez, someone with a vagina, confirms this.
you do not “pee out of your vagina.” The vagina/body has three holes. The anus, the vagina, and the urethra, a small opening above the vagina. We do not pee out of the same hole used during sex/periods. Please, look at a diagram.
the clit, commonly joked around about being difficult to find, is societies ability to erase the vagina’s pleasure. Located in any diagram of the vagina out there, the clit has over 8,000 nerves (the penis only having 4,000) and exists for sexual pleasure. To have your sex partner ignore the face you have a button like organ that only exists for your pleasure, is a way for society to once again, not care about your enjoyment in sex. If you enjoy sex, make sure you’re enjoying it with someone who wants to please you.
the tightness myth- commonly used by men to shame women for having multiple sex partners. Time and time again, people have proved this theory to be wrong, but it’s still a thing. The vagina comes in many different sizes, for one. Some people with vaginas have a smaller vagina, and they are tight a lot of the time. During arousal the vagina expands in anticipation, and once penetrated, tightens around whatever is inside.If the vagina feels extremely tight, it’s because they are not aroused. This can lead to blood, pain, and an awful sex experience. No matter how many times you have sex, your vagina goes back to its normal size. IT ONLY STRETCHES WHEN YOU ARE AROUSED. Another way we have been manipulated and shamed for having sexual pleasure.
labia shaming- the labia majora is the part of a vagina that is outside of your labia minora. The minora is the part of your vagina that is slangy used as “lips” and these are almost all different. Every vagina has a different labia, some are small, some are long, some are shriveled, some are thin, they are all different. Its BASIC human anatomy and has nothing to do with your tightness/looseness.
discharge- another way for cis men who know nothing about the vagina to shame us for being “dirty.” Vaginal discharge is a part of the vaginas self cleaning, from fluids made by glands inside the vagina that carries bacteria and dead cells. This self cleaning keeps the vagina clean and prevents infection. The amount also varies, as can odor and hue. It depends on multiple things: being sexually aroused, pregnant, menstruating, breastfeeding, etc. Do not let anyone shame you for your bodies natural cleaning.
orgasms- oh the myth about the “female” orgasm. This is one of the biggest lies and selfish manifestation of a culture who doesn’t want cis women to enjoy sex. you can orgasm from your clit, penetration, blending of both, and basically good sex. The vaginal orgasm is something that can be achieved from rubbing a vibrator on your clit for about 10-15 minuets, and should not be forgotten because your sexual partner doesn’t care. It might take a bit of time, but it is not difficult. Read up about different kinds of orgasms and better ways to achieve them, as there are too many ways to be explained here.
and finally, FGM. Something that is the result of a culture who does’t want women to enjoy sex at all costs, and needs to be discussed. Female Genital Mutilation is the removal of exterior vaginal genitalia. Its surprising how many people do not know about this. It is an official violation of human rights, and it serves no health benefits, only future problems. FGM is practiced in more than 29 countries, and over 130 million women in the world have been victims. It is commonly ignored by society, and its vile and only done to eliminate a woman’s chance at sexual pleasure. The procedure is done from any age, usually 5-15, and done by an older woman with a rusty knife. It causes extreme pain, severe bleeding, risk of infection, and difficulty in passing urine and menstruation. It can also result in problems with future pregnancy’s. Please do your research on this, as it is the ultimate, most severe effect of the way the vagina has been told it is a sin by cultures everywhere.
Overall, love yourself and your vaginas. Talk about your vaginas. Yours is different, unique, and yours to discover. - lexi4prez.
today at breakfast break i was just casually eating a packet of finding nemo fruit snacks and everything is normal im talking to shiny eating candy sea creatures buT THEN THEN UNEXPECTEDLY I PULL OUT A FRICKING MIKE WAZOWSKI FROM THIS PACKAGE OF AQUATIC ANIMALS HE IS MONSTER WHY WAS HE HERE THIS IS NOT MONSTERS INC MIKE THIS IS THE OCEAN
My 7 year old son was shot down by his 1st grade teacher
The american public education system in a nutshell tho
My third grade teacher actually had a conversation with my mom that I was reading to well and told her to stop having me read at home
My first grade teacher said that it was problematic that I was reading ahead of the rest of the kids in my grade and asked my parents to stop letting me read Harry Potter.
My fourth grade teacher thought it was wrong for my dad to be teaching me complex math because it fascinated me.
My elementary school music teacher hated the way my piano teacher taught me, and how I was more advanced than many of her students, and so told me, in front of my peers and my mother, that I was not good enough to participate in the state solo festival. She would not give me the form. We had to procure it from the district instead. She also hated how I excelled at reading and playing music for the recorder, and so she refused to give me my “belts” (colored beads to signify our level) and humiliated me in front of the class repeatedly.
My eighth grade algebra teacher used to fail me on take home tests because I didn’t solve problems exactly the way she showed us in class; I used methods that we had learned for other types of problems that also applied to these. She took points off my tests because I didn’t bring a calculator even though I got 100% without it, because I was able to do it by hand. I had to call my father, who is an engineer, down to the school to shout her down and give me back my A in the class.
My 10th grade Spanish teacher yelled at me in front of the class numerous times because she didn’t like the way I took notes; she thought that since I didn’t write every word off the slide, I wasn’t getting it all down. I had to explain to her that people who have taken advanced courses, like AP or IB classes, know that in a fast-paced learning environment you need to take quick shorthand notes that contain the necessary information rather than wasting time writing every word. She almost gave me detention.
My 11th grade English teacher gave me a poor mark on my first short essay because she believed that I was looking up unnecessarily complex words in a thesaurus to try and get better marks. The phrases in question: “laced with expletives” and “bombarded”. She wouldn’t hear any defense from me.
My 11th grade history teacher failed me on an essay about the 1950s because I misread the prompt. Except the prompt wasn’t words; it was a political cartoon. One of the figures was clearly president Eisenhower, but the other I couldn’t place. My teacher would not tell us who it was. I labelled him as the governor of Little Rock Arkansas during the integration period, and wrote an essay about that subject. My teacher said that no, it was Joseph McCarthy, and that there was a small picture of the man in our textbook and therefore I should have recognized him instantly. Half the class, apparently, did not.
The American school system is not here to educate us or to encourage us to learn; it’s here to keep us in line and silent. It’s here to keep us from deviating and being our own people and forming our own ideas. Don’t let it win.
Women pay more for products. Men pay more for clothing.
Do men really pay more for clothes?
Yea, seriously. Shirts, sneakers, jeans, socks…etc. Ask your male friends how much they pay for a pair of descent jeans. It’ll blow your mind.
At least their pants have fucking pockets tho
“Men pay more for clothing.”
(Target)
Are you sure?
Are you
(Walmart)
ABSOLUTELY SURE??
BECAUSE I’M NOT ENTIRELY CONVINCED
LIKE AT ALL
THAT MEN HAVE IT HARDER
(Victoria’s Secret)
OH AND SHOULD I BRING UP PANTIES WHILE I’M AT IT? I am a firm believer of the “fuck you, I’ll wear briefs that don’t give me a wedgie, I don’t care if they’re not sexy” policy, but a lot of women are expected to wear panties and thongs because GASP WOMEN MUST BE BEAUTIFUL AT ALL TIMES. Here’s a screenshot of some Victoria’s secret panties!
Wow. It’s almost as if there’s a pattern here.
Women are expected to buy more clothing, and literally all of it is more expensive, so fuck all of you.
*HAMMERS THE REBLOG BUTTON*
Fucking infuriating. And, NO ONE pays more for clothes than fat women. Tired of it.
“cj why do you buy mens clothing?” cause its cheaper and the pockets are real.
